Rather, I think the very opposite is true. He knows something profound...we were created to be relational. Just as our God is a relational God (both with himself and with us), he created us to be in relationships with him as well as with others. Relationships are for our benefit and joy! This might be the reason we think hermits are weird. It's abnormal to live in isolation. Not only that, this is why solitary confinement is a punishment. We don't want to be alone, we want to be relationships with others...it's life-giving.
Therefore, even though it may be uncomfortable for us to pursue and initiate relationships with people, it really is for our joy and benefit. Think about the relationships you are the closest with, whether romantically or platonic, all of them share the same common denominator....someone took a risk and put themselves out there and something great came from it. When we live like this on a more frequent basis, the possibility of reaching people for Jesus and becoming greater friends along the way are endless.
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